Mindful Drinking & Moderation in Midlife: How to Drink Less

Mindful Drinking & Moderation in Midlife: How to Drink Less

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Surf the Urge — What to Do When a Craving Hits

Includes your three-step framework for riding out any craving

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Denise Hamilton-Mace
Apr 01, 2026
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TLDR: Scroll to the bottom of the post, or upgrade to The Vault, to download your Surf the Urge tool.

Is this normal?

In Reduce, Replace... and Then What? we look at the three R’s of mindful drinking, and in ep#169. 20 Small Shifts That Changed How I Drink (5 Years In) I share 20 tips that have helped me change my drinking habits for good.

Topics like these matter because no matter how well-intentioned we are with our drinking choices, cravings (and nostalgia) will always poke their beaky noses in where they are not wanted.

It’s important that you know that that is normal, and definitely not something to beat yourself up over.

Your Vault Tool

When you need a little help in managing those moments, Surf the Urge helps you to:

  • Recognise it for what it really is (hint: it’s not actually about the alcohol)

  • Ride it out until it naturally passes

  • Replace it with something else

You’ll get a printable chart to help you keep track of what actually works for YOU when different cravings strike.

Why Become a Member?

Join me today to get access to this and all the other tools in The Vault.

Join a community of over 1,500 midlife mindful drinkers looking to take back the power of choice from alcohol.

✅ For less than a round of drinks on a night out, you’ll get access to all the Vault has to offer, including:

  • The Habit Breaker

  • Surf the Urge

  • The Mindful Night Out Game Planner

  • And more tools added every month…

🙋🏽 As a paid member, you can also request tools and resources tailored to your specific mindful drinking dilemmas.

➕ Plus: Substack Vault members also get exclusive access to personal email mentorship from me to help you work through those real-life drinking moments that matter.

🌱 Level up, and you’ll also get access to the 4-Week Midlife Mindful Drinking Reset so that you can put everything you learn inside the Vault into action and commit to lasting change for a life less intoxicated.

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